Main reason why most Kakak refuse to come back
Never ending tales about Kakak eh, hehe…sorry, I promise that this would be the last one.
Mum went back yesterday, after Kakak settle down. Kinda sad for me to see dear mum leaves, after all she has been staying with us for the past three weeks. I must admit that mum and myself are indeed closer to the kids. Without a helper around, we have to help them get out of the car, fetch their shoes for them, wash their bum-bum whenever they poo or give them shower daily and practically do everything to assist them in their daily life. It is good to see mum got so close to them this time, although sticky Korkor always say,
“Wo bu yao Por Por, wo bu yao Lao Por, wo zi shi yao Ma Ma!”
Ever since Kakak came back, she wakes up on time to work. So far so good. She gradually settle down, and I begin to dig stories of what happened to her in her home town while she was back.
Not wanting to trust her in-laws and her useless hubby, she actually just brought home Rm2000 for Raya Holiday use. Hard to believe eh… she rather trust me compare to her families? But I sense something not right when she madly sms-ed me so many times everyday, asking for all the balance Rm9k to be given all her balance she had with me to her in-laws. Hence I only transferred another Rm3k, leaving another Rm6k on hand.
She told me today, that some agents even came to her house to offer her job to other countries like Taiwan and Singapore. I guess it is common when some experience Kakak goes home. The thing is, if she takes up immediately the offer to work in Singapore, the agent will pay her about Rm1000. IMAGINE, that is about 2 months of her salary here!
And guess what, hearing upon this, her super-greedy-FIL (who secretly sold her house and even Kakak’s daughter’s gold earrings just to feed his stomach with expensive seafood) immediately tell her not to come back to Malaysia anymore but to take up the offer so they get the advance money from the agent ! Imagine, upfront Rm1000 ler, which is really a LOT to them!
A few days before her departure to Malaysia, she even called me to tell me her hubby torn her Air Asia check-in slip so she cannot come back anymore (she even told me today it is common because it happened to her neighbour when the sex-hungry male beasts over there, locked up their working wife, hoping that they will wear nurses uniforms for them on bed, tear up their passport to prevent them from going back to continue working, sigh…)
Anyway, my warning to her over the phone was simple, “I have passed all your balance money to your agent. It is either you come back to finish your contract, or you won’t be able to collect that full hard earned Rm6k you still left here. You sure you don’t want those hard earn money meh? ”
You see, Rm6k is somehow still worth coming back for, than that 2 months salary cash advance from the agents over there or that sex-hungry beastly man of her life.
Hence, that is how I finally got our Kakak back, safely home to rest her mind. I hope that I can help her to plan to buy a land or build a house with the remaining money instead of giving them all just to feed her useless husband and that inhuman FIL…
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laugh at the way u put that ‘nurses uniform’!!! LOL
hmm some how feel pity to them hor. Work alone oversea but the family in hometown never appreciate them but treat them as a ATM.
Marrying the right or wrong guy is really a huge different for a gal’s life……. No wonder she rather trust you, holding her money than her own family members…
If you’ve a good one, grab hold of her - keep her at all costs for as long as possible. The new ones are really horrible! All kinds of problems!!!
my friend’s maid hub locked her up, raped her and got her preg so that she cannot come back to msia. All also got different stories. maid= headache
Gosh, her husband and FIL are terible! I’ve heard of many cases in Indonesia where the women are forced to get jobs while the husbands enjoy life away…
Kudos to you if you can help her buy the land. That’s a very, very kind thing to do
gosh…such a dramatic story of the maid. hope things had settle down both for your family as well as the maid. looks like she really needs to plan her future well…. my symphaty!!
I read also I headache. I am really, really afraid to get helpers and will try my best NOT to get any as long as I can still manage and at the moment I am managing fine coz I only have ONE anaks.. In future I dunno.. @_@
Your maid is starter than most kampung girls la. Does she have a kid back home? If not, why go back to those useless males? She can very well support herself wat…