So afraid of broken marriage?
Lately, QQ has been requesting hubby and I to do lots of funny thing at home, like do deep kissing, hugging, and holding hands while watching TV right in front of her eyes! Although we feel really awkward when we do that due to her request, she gets really happy, give us a BIG smile on her face and clap her hands. She gets really upset, close up her ears and yelled “STOPPPP” at us when hubby and I sometimes argue or raise our voice angrily while talking to each other. She even yelled back at us, asking why we want to get married in the first place if we hate each other so much.
I wonder what has gotten into her, my only 6 year old girl??
Until 2 days back, she told me that a boy’s parents from her class have separated. QQ said the boy and his elder brother are now living with their father while their mother lives alone. This obviously leaves impact to her and perhaps she is feeling insecure, so afraid of loosing either both of us one day.
Finally I understand. At least hubby and I now make an effort to avoid raising voice or argue in front of the kids, unless one of us really gets *MAD*!
Looks like my 6 year old QQ is now mature enough to treasure the value of a happy family eh… 
I think most children will have this fear.. and they can be really sensitive in this issue..
wow..QQ giving you n hubby a kind reminder. Sometimes, when I argue with hubby, YX will also ask ” papa naughty is it? or mama naughty is it? Why u scold him / her?” After that incident, now we will also try to avoid raising our voice in front of the kids. But sometimes hard to control hor.
wow, that’s really sweet
good girl QQ!
so sensitive of her. but mine arh gets very angry when hubby hugs or kiss me…they get VERY jealous. it’s like their daddy is theirs not mommy’s.
waaa QQ understands so much now!! and she’s taking the effort to do something to “prevent” it from happening to her own family huh.
QQ has indeed grown up. well done QQ!
Ya…try to avoid urging madly in front of kids.
Awww…I feel for QQ’s insecurity *hugs to her*. Hopefully, your actions will give her more confidence.