Sep
03
2008

Almost forgotten QQ

Before I had the boys, I used to focus so much on QQ. Although she is already 4, she still look like a baby in our eyes. I miss the moments where we nap together, dine together at nice place after I picked her up from school, shower together, and bake together.

Although we still spend time together now, I kind of miss the closeness with her. Probably my mind is full of thought and the task that I have to do for the twins. As if I do not enjoy our moments anymore as I am always in a rush for something.

I do miss you, dear and sorry for not updating about you.

20 Responses to “Almost forgotten QQ”

  1. im sure qiqi will understand… dun worry u have been a good mum!!

  2. this is just another phase and i’m sure she understand. as the firstborn, they will always have a special place in our hearts. even though i hv 3 now, Belle knows that she is always No. 1 in our eyes. :)

  3. awww… she will understand as she grows, she will always be the cheh2 for the boys!

  4. i’m sure she loves her brothers and will understand why mummy is showering so much attention on them. i’m sure she dotes on them too:)

  5. Baby is always the ‘new’ toys for mommy. Don’t worry, soon you will have more times for QiQi…..

  6. think the bright side, you will be the most happiest mother in the world who blessed with 3 kids :)

  7. Qiqi is jie jie d wor~ :)

  8. am sure she understands :-) I have a very good feeling that she’ll be a good jie jie

  9. ya..it’s a sucky-yucky feeling.

    I have that alot too. Guilt.

    Sigh…welcome to motherhood.

  10. I wonder if that is a norm?
    Don’t know will it happen to me or not… hehehe

  11. I always think Karl will understand that we still love him as much as his brother and sister but it seems that we need to tell him and show him that we love him. I have learn a lesson: never take for granted.

  12. u can always blog more about your 3 fella on the whole, then u wont leave QQ out (like Healthfreak mommy). Readers will also get updates on QQ from time to time. I oso feel guilty sometimes I only take the gals photos more than the twins who are much older now. Little ones are always nicer to focus on. ha ha.

  13. don worry chinnee…after a while, u’ll be able to do d things u used to do with QQ..just tat dis moment, u r still adapting yerself handling d twins..but soon…u be able to do all without sweat ;)
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  14. Ya, I know how you feel. I really feel Harvynna is neglected as I tend to give a lot of attention to Rowena. Its becuase Rowena is really naughty and i need to keep an eye on her all the time. As long as Qi Qi’s daddy makes up the lack of attention with her

  15. Oh, I’m sure she’ll understand. She must be very proud to be a sister of 2 little brothers. :)

  16. QQ will understand you, just try your best be with her when she need you.

  17. don’t worry… QQ is a big girl now and i’m sure she will understand the role of being ‘big sister’ soon!!!

  18. I’m sure Q Q will understand, she is the big jie jie and mummy need to spent time with di di as they are still a babies.

  19. so you had boys. so cute too.

    In time you will be able to catch up with Qiqi and she will enjoy it just like before. Don’t worry momma. :)

  20. I feel that way too for clay.. he goes to school from 7-16 and I only have 5 hours with him everyday.. I try not to take a nap when he is around.. and try to be with him and give him loving touch as often as possible…

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