A loving little trouble maker
This little trouble maker can really makes me heart attack sometimes. Sometimes when I am not looking, she will do all kinds of actions to show her affection. Sometimes, she rubs them on head, bring something sharp near to them, and even tried to massage the babies by pulling their ears, pulling their hands to the wrong direction, poking her sharp fingers on their soft skull!
Since she is not afraid of the maid, the maid cannot do anything except come to complain to me. I wonder if I should give my maid some “authority” to handle QQ at times? If I do so, I am worried if she misuse the “authority” one day…
Luckily I have another useful babysitter, which is our dearest new TV. They really get entertained when I leave the TV on. Must ask hubby to check out on the tv lifts so that our TV can be placed higher and further from the boys.
Better don’t give the maid too much authority. Slowly, you will find that they are no longer following instructions.
i think she is just adoring the bbs n she doesnt noe wat is harmful to the bbs… ya i thik better not give too much authority… i told my maid can scold them if they r reli out of control but nvr to hit
Sometimes they don’t know their own strength. the fact that she wants to be with them is a good sign already
Agree with you that you shouldnt give maid authority. Sometimes they start to “berlagak”.
she’s just showing affection…but need to constant remind her to be gentle :), I’m sure she’s OK
She just want to sayang her dih-dih…
guess she still doesn’t understand what’s dangerous for the babies. i love the photo above. looks like the baby is so happy to see his che che.
I think sometimes no choice that we always just have to keep an eye on the babies. Similar as QQ, my gal also likes to show her affection to the di di. From the beginning we constantly telling her that she has to be gentle to the di di.
But one good thing is sometimes when both of us are busy, I can leave the boy in the carrier and place him near me, and ask the jie jie to play with the di di (of course still have to keep an eye on them la). So at least can keep both of them ‘busy’ for a while.
Aw… this photo melts my heart. Perhaps you can have a one-one talk and explain to her?
Ya agreed better dun give the maid “authority”.
Maybe you should explain while perform her wrong action on her, so that she could understand the uncomfortable feeling.
I guess she needs some time to show the affection by “adjusting her strength”, and most elder kids are like this. As for the maid, I think she can just advise, but never hit.
better don gip “green lite” to maid…
cheh2 will soon learn to be more gentle
just keep reminding Qiqi other than giving authority to maid. Maid can never be trusted.
QQ must love the boys very much ;p.. Ya need constant reminder instead of giving the authority to maid.
She’s jes too affectionate. Guess u’ll jes hv to keep on reminding her to be gentle.
I guess QiQi just want to act as jie jie to her didi…..just close monitor her will do…..one day, you even will thank QiQi for looking after the twins when you are busy or no more maid….appreciate her lil helps…
cool picxxs