Nanny came running, how embarrassing
Not sure it is because the pregnancy is getting near to term.
Recently I really beh tahan QQ recently. She cry at slight little things, demand me to walk here and there to fetch her things, must sit there and choose her DVD for her, on the TV for her (although she is capable to do all these by herself). She does not let the maid shower for her, not even my mother when she was here 2 weeks ago.
Worst till, she picked up the skill of screaming and whining until she lost control and leak urine on the floor (it happens a few times a day!) Imagine, a 4-yr-old!!!! She was screaming so loudly yesterday afternoon (as I was smacking her hard) until her nanny (who is staying 2 doors away) got panic and came running to my house as she thought QQ was accidentally scalded with something hot in the kitchen.
I am really grateful to her nanny for being still so concern about her since she no longer taking care of my girl. But on the other hand, it is really embarrassing ler, sigh…….this girl hah….really make mummy no face!
*Must really go open and hide inside my little cat condo!
QQ must have sense that her twin little brothers in coming out anytime soon, so she just want attention from you. It’s happen to me too when I had Sidney just that the screaming part is mummy instead of the boy.. hehehe!!
QQ just wants your attention coz she know once d twins born, yer time with her is getting less..but I know how u feel, hang on there yea
QQ is a bit jealous now, as she knows her brothers are coming very soon…..normal la, pampered mar….
perhaps qiqi can sense the babies are coming soon, chinnee, you’re almost there !!
The same thing happened to Sherilyn when I was about to deliver Cassandra. I guess it’s jealousy.
It sounds so familiar to me… Like what your friends had said, must be the twins coming soon, hence the temper. Hope she will pass this phase soon..
the older gen used to say thay when mommy is abt to deliver, the little one will be able to sense it…so guess u are really gonna pop soon!
Aiyoh… don’t be so heated…. I think Qiqi just want your attention… she knew when her little brothers are here… she won’t get as much attention…
Well…brace for it. The boys r coming. Hopefully, QiQi will be able to put her aside her feelings..and help you out. But…for a 4 yr old kid to do that… well, even adults can have tantrums.
Take care and praying for ur safe delivery.
Glad you had a good nanny. Mine… I have no comment and I am glad both my kids are now in kindy and daycare. No more stressfull and pressure from my babysitter. By the way I have added you in my blogroll.
its because of ur bb that qq did that. jealous and wants ur attention so u gotta give her more attention and love and dont scold or smack her.. u can oso buy gifts for her and when bb come out, tell her that the presents are from her little brothers..
ha ha ha. even grandma came running. Cant blame grandma. They all love their grandkids to bits and the grandkids can do no wrong one.
that’s very nice of your nanny
she’s so caring eh? i don’t have a 2nd kid so I don’t know if that’s jealousy or not but ashley also loves to scream her head off 
Yeah, probably it’s like what the old folks say, “zhang fah”…
ya i think she is throwing tantrum for attention. kids that age can sense when the bond is lesser because they dont know mothers are tired and getting grouchy when pregnant. she probably doesn’t know how to explain it like adults do so that is the only helpless way.
my elder at 3+ was like that. i then started to bond with her while I was 6 months pregnant by letting her participate in the things i do like massaging cream on my tummy and telling her the baby sister is for her and because she is a good girl so gets a ‘present baby’. for a while we called the baby ‘present baby’. when baby no 2 was born she felt proud and learn to love and care for her.
your lil girl QQ is calling for attention…jealousy maybe =(
Don’t worry too much, she will overcome it soon when didi came out to play with her…My lil Isaac is like that, but, I guess he is the youngest so, I still able to control my anger…
maybe she is more sensitive as the twins are coming soon…
good that her nanny is staying nearby… n still adores her..
Kesian you and qq. I hope that things are getting better. Maybe she is going through a transistion (that’s what I tell myself when Jon’s behaviour becomes intollerable).
Yeah, I think she’s just getting ready for the twins in her own way. Hope you stay calm and stress free, please.
I think she sense that her little brothers are coming and she is worried that her place in your heart will change. Just ensure her by talking to her… telling her she will still be loved by everyone in the house…
I think she is telling u indirectly that her brothers are coming and she wanna get more attention from you. Else, for the next few months, she will get less.
she juz needs your attention, don’t get yourself too stress. Pls stay calm and relax, things will turn out to be better! Wish you all the best…
she’s very caring.
and j’s like qq also now. a lil bit also cry. kick and scream. Sigh
I was told that some children tend to behave very manja esp when there’s a new member in the family.
Your twins are coming soon, thus she would somehow have that ‘insecure’ feeling. It’s funny how they just know it. You can call it jealousy
Hi chinnee,
That’s natural. Give QQthe reassuarance that u still love her the same but needs to prepare for the twins coming. Mayb u can wrk out some deal with her to make her feel important. For example telling her where u kip ur maternity bag. Teach her hw to fold napkins, etc. Right nw my kids are so attched and dependent on me. I’ve been and will be on long leave (planning to take unpay)..i m maidless nw.so not so much time to blog, too. good luck