Getting blur and tired
What’s happening to me
I think I am getting blur these days, as if my mind is not working at all. Forgetful most of the time, I really need to rely a lot on my computer memory to remember the work. All I do every day is to lie on bed, as the weight is really pulling me down, affecting me quite badly, especially my walking ability. By now, I think almost everything is done, my niece has moved out, so now the confinement room is vacant. We just have to pick up our maid when hubby is free, get her to help do some simple cleaning over the weekends.
I really hope I can carry the babies as long as I can, near to their EDD which is in July 10th. Sounds a bit impossible, for anyone who has seen me will say so, as my tummy is really low by now. Just imagine, I can even feel one and sometimes 2 heads down there, as I move my legs!
Delivery plan
If the babies arrival clashes with QQ’s nanny’s trip to Bangkok next month, hubby might not be able to go into delivery room with me as he needs to take care of QQ. See how inconvenient it is for us, as we have no one here (my parents are far and still working), but to depend everything on ourself (including getting the confinement herbs!)
Until yesterday my dear friend, Jane offer to accompany me into delivery room, which sounds like a fun idea (if she is available at the moment)
The only outstanding
So far, I still cannot think of any suitable present for my girl, on behalf of her brothers. Did some online search for siblings shirts, but I don’t think I would be able to get them shipped here on time. Any idea what should I get for QQ easily locally?
It must be so difficult on you, Chin Nee because even with one, I find it difficult to walk already.. Think positive ok!!!
As for the present, is QQ currently into a particular toy? Bryan likes toys from the Playhouse series so I bought a fire engine.
u rest more…
maybe bring QiQi to a toy shop and see what she like.
I am in the same boat as you, have to get everything ready by myself before baby’s arrival.
As for the present, I bought a set of Dora’s lego set for Anne, hiding inside my cupboard now
Take care!
chinnee, rest more and do take care of yourself, leave the rest for your maid to do. as for qq present, she got bicycle? if not maybe u want to get her one.
What is your weight now? Take care always my dear..
take care oh, relax relax, easier said than be done, but try… o.O
Hi
Wow! Twins! Congrats…y not get part time help?
You rest more and take care!
I suppose any toy/CD/book that QQ likes should do fine.
what does she like? buy anything that she likes.
at that time, I bought Baby Bop for my girl who was then 22 months old
pity u…in that case, all hv to do is just rest and be calm….i know it’s not easy to do that but iall i can do is pray for ok….bout the present for QQ, i think any toys will do
Relax relax…yes, i will accompany u to labour room (if available)
Dun so worry!
so nice of yr fren to offer to be in the delivery room with you. Why not ask her to jaga QQ and yr hub go into the delivery room with you instead?
yeah that was a very good offer fr yr fren & i also agree with sasha…dady shd view the historical arrival of the twins.
guess cheh-cheh is not that fussy….anythg girlish shd be ok kua !!
how abt offering cheh-cheh the comfort of new pillow & bolster as if she’s hugging her newly arrive di-di(s)…..
How abt asking daddy to bring QQ to ToyrUs and get one herself , tell her whatever she likes is the gift from both younger bros?…Anyway, take care buddy!
My hubby was at work when i signed my own consent form to go in for emergency Caesarian due to my pre-eclampsia. By the time I woke up frm the GA effect, my twins were already in another ward for monitoring due to premature birth at 35 weeks. My hubby came just on time to see us all before the twins were separated from me. Since now most hospitals are husband friendly, dont miss the chance. Try find solutions sothat your hubby could welcome the birth of your twins personally.
As for QQ, I would buy her a nice photo frame where she could paint the frame herself and customised it then put the photo of the twins with her later after the delivery.
Another idea is to get her a basic digital camera with video funtion that she could capture the special moments of the arrival of her twin Ti Tis.
twins?? must be really exciting! qiqi must be really happy she has not 1 but 2 siblings to play with.
Its not easy ya.. take good care of yourself!
it must b real tough on u, i noe how its feel coz we r also staying far apart from our family… u take care
oh dear. rest rest rest.
abt QiQi…I think the best present is to have her mummy back fm hospital real quick. So.. dun worry too much abt anything else. Just focus on a safe delivery and pray that the twins won’t come out during QiQi’s nanny’s trip. Take it easy yea…
*whispers to twins : “Boys…be good to ur mummy k?”*
if qiqi likes Barney, maybe you can find a bowl or other souvenirs with Barney pic for her.
I juz bought two for my kids last week, they love it very much.
can’t wait to see ur twins…u must relax and rest more…
Well…. if i’m around maybe I can help out too… if Qiqi don’t mind playing with Darrius…
So fast you will be delivering soon… Take care! It is very sweet of your friend to offer to be with you
wow. you must be very heavy by now. hope u get to carry them till full term. take care.
siblings shirts? Do your own.
Get plain colored rompers (for bb) and shirt for QQ then drew your own design with those fabric ink pens. Can get from any stationery shop.
Or go to those stalls at shopping malls and get them to custom print those iron on stickers for you.
Shooi
that is a brilliant idea!!! thanks a lot to you :p
Li Li
I am indeed HEAVY
LZmommy
thanks for your well wishes
Angeleyes
when will u be here again?
Lovelymummy
thanks!
Martini
QQ loves everything…keke
Mott
thanks a lot….hope the boys choose their birthdate well
Alicia
how nice to have parents around yeah
Jasmine
thanks
Renet
must be difficult for u at that time. customised photoframe is really a good idea!
Twin
I think they don wanna play with her, hehe…..
Dora
that wud burn a hole in our pocket, haha
Jacss
come to think of it, can customise also yeah with the pillow
Sasha
tak boleh la…QQ wont wanna follow other ppl
Paik Ling
hmm…no special preference la…
Chooi Peng
haha..let her choose? our pocket burn hole lol
Beckysmum
wow…that is a nice present
Fiona
yeah…she got one oredi
Kee Yit
a weight of big HIppo
Irene
thanks
Rachel’s mum
yes, there will be a maid to help with the hsework
Wai Leng
probably a book on sister and her 2 bros hor
Mamawafiy
thanks a lot
Jane
wait for my call yeah
take care ya… i can understand your situation now. we are away from our families too.
if you eye on something from spore, let me know and i’ll get for you later in end june(im home in kulim now), hopefully your babies will arrived closer to EDD.
bless you and your family.
Can drop Qiqi with any realiable friend near you? I think it’s a precious moment for your hubby to be your side during the delivery.
Get QiQi the present that she love most!! Something that she wanted for….maybe, when you deliver, it is a good times for your hubby to bond closer to QiQi??