Story with hubby
Jasmine send me this tag, and I remember doing it sometime back, but weird, I just can’t find it. Anyway, just had a cold war with hubby during the past one week so it would be a good opportunity for me to pour out my inner voice and bitterness again.
Story starts like that:
Hubby was clearing leave, and at the same time I had to use the only car we have to drive QQ to school last week. As I couldn’t do much housework right now (climbing up to do the curtain, clearing the cabinets), I was thankful that he at least help me to do the spring cleaning.
However QQ was extremely clingy to him and that irritates him even more, having to handle QQ at the same time cleaning. At the same time, he also need to travel and buy some truck accessories for his brother. Me at the same time was sleeping most of the afternoons since I was having headache after waking up and accompany QQ to school the whole morning.
(no wonder most hubbies find it entertaining to stay away from home till late nite and ended up straying la….sigh…..)
I do appreciate his help but it would be better if he could:
1. Control his temper and understand more about how children behaves at home
2. Keep an eye close lor when at home sometimes…..
3. Be more sensitive to me since I am also suffering a lot right now (with wailing QQ and serious back pain)
4. Be more vocal (at least talk or discuss with me when unhappy)
5. And thats all I can think of right now….time to go fetch QQ
sorry to hear about the aches, hope they go away soon ya.. please don’t stress yourself ya and need to rest more.. and don’t worry about the housework.. am sure your hubby (and guests) will understand
And to our hubby, now is a good time to bond with QiQi and “teach” her to help do the housework together.. it’ll be fun.. and yes, definitely need to discuss more now and compromise a little
not easy to handle a household together yeah….
Spring cleaning should be a family affair
Take care and happy New Year!
yeah…i agree :p
i also wish my hubby can control his temper as he just beaten up En En for being ridiculously asking us to bring her go kai-kai no matter it’s day or night…
Can understand how u feel, Sharine
Some of the arguments are good la for a healthy family. Not arguments or cold wars at all will be weird I think.. hehehe..
if prolong then danger wor….hahaha!!!
Don’t be unhappy abt it. This is a stressful period for everyone, I guess… with a lot of changes around. Don’t take it to heart ya.
haha…i think i am over sensitive also these days
Haiya~ Tell me about it… men are never sensitive… if they, are either they are gay or they are womanizer.
Men just don’t like to talk (my hubby is the best example, he’s a man with few words!) So imagine when we are going through rough times…. we can not talking for days! He can not talk to my MIL for months! See… men are like that.
During the end of the year with Darrius so sick we are still in cold war… it really drove me crazy… that was why you don’t see me blogging for days…. I lost mood totally!
So, you just hang on there… at least you have so many kawan here to listen to your rants…
yeah….really missing u la friend….i wish i can stay online more!!
hey..sorry to hear about this. Most men are the same. I totally agree with you. Just hang in there and take care of yourself
It’s really not easy with you being so tired nowadays and have to take care of a toddler. *hugz*
thanks Barb….
Take care! Looks like you are under a lot of stress. Hey most men are like that, hard to change them. Maybe find an helper to take care of QiQi.
otherwise they will be called mother lol
Sigh man is like that. My hb only will do if I tell him to. But glad he care of the family
they dun talk, they dun communicate and they aspect you to understand them. I can say 90% of them are like these… agree!!!
u r preggie now… dun so ‘kek hei’ ok!!!