I had to use lil hanger now!
Thanks to Trinity who sent me this interesting topic tag on Parenting Issue, whether we should cane our child or not. I am sorry I took a long time to reply, and the previous week was very hectic for me. With QQ starting school, and hubby was on leave at home, I really had no time to on the computer, or should I say dare to on the computer (since hubby is the only one doing spring cleaning at home).
Well, I did not dare to buy a cane at home, as I know I wouldn’t be able to control myself. More details here. But during the pass one week, QQ has been extremely clingy to her father and it really makes us very stressed. I had no choice but had to scare her just with her little hanger, whenever she doesn’t obey us at home. This is the only resort I am using so far 
i have started waving the hanger at my 1.5 year old too. he likes playing with the tap water in our room! tell him NO so many times, tak jln.
really dono how the mat salleh uses “NO”. Memang tak jalan when they very shiok playing la.
Hopefully scaring her is good enuff, so u don’t hv to use it on her.
i hope so too :p
i do that too, but either with my hand or a slipper when my kids were younger. so far they are behaving better, they don’t like to get a spanking
hand can be pretty painful as our hand is bigger…
I dun like to use round cane on child as it will left a cane mark on them. Worst if you accidently using a bit of force.
I used ruler type, flat surface.
My wife let me do the caning and training. She be the good one.
Since young I trained her using 1,2,3 basis. I will cane her if she dun stop after counting 3. It still works on me, after 3 years.
But sometime I have to give in when she is very moody, etc. very sleepy, very hungry or not feeling well.
Hi Yemmy, thanks for dropping by. Yeah…I am using 1….2…..3….also.. Most of the time, she will stop me from going to fetch the hanger:p
I always get ready with the cane in hand.. heheheh.
After canning her.. she will beg for forgiveness… and ask me to sayang back…
While I sayang her… I start telling her grandmother story, and she will start laughing…
gee….u are really fantastic la!! How come your gal din run to mummy ler?